this is actually an old post from my old blog that i'd like to repost.. ^_^
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warning! tis will be mushy! exit now if you dont want to read!!! hahahahaha!!!
tis entry is a tribute to the knight of my life..
my cyg onchet.. ^__^
so obviously kat atas ni is my hubby ajoy aka my cyg onchet la kan.. hihihihi..
dulu when we first got together ramai sgt2 tak
setuju i chose ajoy.. coz nobody could look beyond his physical n looks. and
sadly, actually till today pun there are still people who has this weird look
when they look at me and ajoy.. some still duk kutuk2 ajoy behind my back (org
bgtau aku, toksah nk deny la ok)..
now let me tell you.. to me ajoy is very handsome..
why??
he is very handsome whenever he puts me first above
his wants and needs and other priorities because I AM his priority now..
he is very handsome whenever he gives so much
support in whatever i wanna do, regardless if it only benefits me, or benefits
both of us..
he is very handsome because he is never calculative
with me..
he is very handsome whenever his 'angin rajin'
comes and he does most of the household chores, especially when i am super bz
with work.. and he never complains..
he is very handsome whenever he knew i had a very
tiring weekday and on saturday morning he lets me sleep in, and when i wake up
breakfast is ready for me..
he is very handsome whenever he never gives up
looking for new opportunity (halal ok) to support us financially and never
choose the wrong path for easy money unlike some ppl we knw.. (citer betul nih)
he is very handsome whenever he buys something for
him, he never forgets to buy something for me without me asking.. kalau kita
mintak tu lain citer.. tis is when he does it unexpectedly..
he is very handsome whenever he tends to me when i
am sick and i am always having some sort of sakit be it athsma la, gastric la,
low blood pressure la, migraine la.. heck, m really grateful ada org nk kawin
with me despite all my illnesses! :P
he is very handsome whenever he does all the manly stuff in the house like painting our house, changing light bulbs, pasang furniture, simple plumbing or carpenting, etc.. i say this becoz some husbands dowan to do tis u knw.. kena panggil org buat..
he is very handsome in so many other ways that i
cannot describe here hahaha!
last but not least, ajoy has a very nice smile and
he is handsome to me.. i tell him that many times too.. but, what
is important to me is his handsomeness with the above criteria.. alhamdulillah,
i believe i chose the right man to be my husband as he truly is my bestfriend,
my confidante, my doctor, my life n my everything.
if you have a partner like the above, to me, you're
very lucky.. sbb most women, tak dpt all of the above and really yearns someone
like tis.. some women prefer to choose men with looks or with money and ended
up unhappy and dpt suami yg tak tentative and tak supportive..some even beat
their wives summore tau..
what i wanna stress here is, rupa & duit tak
menjamin kebahagiaan.. and m not saying ajoy is perfect.. he is far from
perfect.. just as i am.. just as we all are.. but he is perfect for me, as i am
for him insyaAllah.. we complement each other.. isnt tat wat we look for in a
partner? lantak la suami org tu handsome ke tak ke, toksah la duk ngata suami
org lain sdgkan diri sdri pun tak tau lg nasib caner in d future.. so apa kata kita
just doakan kebahagiaan masing2 je.. kan lg besttttt.. ^_^
to those yg kutuk2 ajoy boncet la, tak hensem la,
mcm2 la, pls be more sensitive la ok.. i have feelings too u know.. u say these
things about my husband igt i tak terasa ke.. ure talking about someone i
really2 love.. dlm hati nk je balas mcm2 balik but m not like tat.. so simpan
je la kan..
