those who've noticed my fb posts recently wud know tat i got some drama going on at my ofc..
m sure at every ofc mesti ada at least one person that u're annoyed with.. dgn yg kaki kipas nya.. dgn ada yg pemalas nk mampus nya.. dgn yg gila kuasa nya.. and it will be especially hard to work with these kinda colleague when they're in the same department as us.. so this is my story..
i knew N when i first started work at you-know-where.. went lunch with her and a few other colleagues.. during lunch i knew mmg susah nk get along with her and her friends sbb terlampau brand conscious.. smpi meja makan pun tny brand apa.. tsktsk.. fortunately one of the lady in that group of ppl during my 1st lunch wasnt like tat and she brought me to another group.. the group m still with now..
for a long time, N never joined us for lunch and we never did want her around pun bcoz all of us were irritated and annoyed with her bossiness. semua benda nk suruh org buat becoz she feels its not her level to do so. i myself hv been warned by my friends not to help her with anything unless it is my job coz if not, N will take advantage of me..
until 1 day she wanted to join us for lunch, as awkward as it was for all of us, we let her coz makan je kan.. how much can it hurt to spend another 1 hour with her tul tak.. then we noticed she doesnt go out for lunch with her old group anymore to which we found out that they had a fall out. and to which she kept on talking bad about them again and again and again to us. it did made us wonder wat really happened but never did pry from her old friends. utk apa tul tak..
tis went on for more than a year. we are already comfortable with her. and we are all actually tolerating her. if it was about work, she'll be very2 bossy, kaki kipas boss, over achiever, sgt giler kuasa and gila pangkat.. it annoys the hell out of us, and our boss kecik and our head of dept as well. in short, she's trying too hard for nothing. if it was not about work, it would be a different case pulak.. she's always so scared that we dont tell her anything, always thinking that we're talking behind her back which in d end we did because she always accuse us of which compels us to do so LOL, always thinking we deliberately leave her out of our conversations or plans and super duper sensitive dgn kata lain minah cepat sentap.. and most of the time, we were talking about entirely different thing, nothing to do with her tp dia perasan lebih.. adoihhhhh.. also, we're not supposed to talk to her old friends, even if we were only talking about work.. mcm kat skolah kan.. but, she is actually fun to talk to about fashion and other life stuff if she doesnt get sentap..
in other words, her -ve traits is actually maybe 30% of her, but made up of 90% of her from time to time as our patience were thinning and thinning due to sentap after sentap after sentap!
mind you, she doesnt let us knw verbally. we can take it if she just say it out loud "eee teruknya ckp camtu.." or "kurang ajar tul la mulut" or "mulut cam kimak siot".. we can take it. at least we know. ni takkkkkk.. she uses fb status, twitter and bb status to let it out to make sure we read it. tat is what annoys us like hell!!! ckp je la.. ni depan2 mcm ok tp sambil gelak2 letak status2 mcm tu.. tak ke mcm sial tu..
on top of that she'll act like she's an angel where she has never done anything wrong. lepas da marah2 mesti ada hadis or apa2 berkaitan kat status2 dia. actually another colleague pointed tis out to me, and said the whole office is laughing about all her "above-everybody-else" status and attitude..
i'd think our last straw was when my friend pointed out a gossip that i knew a long time ago from the horse's mouth and kept it to myself, and N got so upset that she doesnt know abt it.. so yes, she tweeted, fb-ed and bb-ed a question about not knowing who's a friend or foe WHILE HAVING LUNCH WITH ALL OF US, IN FRONT OF OUR FACE!!! i was reading my novel at the time, checking whether my hubby had replied my bb when i saw her status.. it took all that i had to stop me from blowing at her face and ask her to leave us if she had to ask that question while eating with us, about a silly gossip! lain la kalau my friend pregnant ke apa ke and tak share, tu nk sentap tu phm la lagi.. ni psl gossip pun nk sentap??? bkn benda elok tuk dgr pun.. better tak yah tau la dr dgr and tau rahsia org lain..
so things spiraled down from there.. b4 tis none of us reacted to her statuses.. but this time to us it had gone too far.. but as m d only "loud" one in the group i reacted by subtly replying her rants.. all those that u see on my wall was hidden from her, but was told to my co's mulut tempayan (MT) coz i know tis MT wud surely tell her someday..
we now dont have lunch with her.. she is telling other ppl tat we pulaukan dia.. suka hati la.. if ppl put two and two together, they cud see that things didnt work out with old group, now with us pun tak work out jugak.. igt org tak leh pikir ke.. u can tell the whole world for all we care.. but a big chunk of the company cant stand you and knows the real you.
one of the things i told MT was "N nak main api ke? main lah kalau berani.. aku masih sabar lagi ni.. jgn smpi aku da hilang sabar, and aku meletup, semua org akan takut nk cakap dgn aku lepas aku meletup smpi la aku senyum kat diaorg.. diam tak semestinya kitaorg tak tau apa2 eh.. diam tak semestinya kitaorg takde rasa apa2 eh.. ko ckp dgn dia, be careful.."
for 1 - 2 weeks N refused to talk to me, even about work.. padahal dia yg asyik marah org tak professional la itu ini la..but after i told MT that, N terus mcm biasa dgn kitaorg.. difference is, we dont eat with her anymore, we got back our old group hehehe..
things are fine at least for now..
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p/s: this is a short version of the whole story.. byk lg lum citer but this is d bigger picture la hehehe..
