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| *gmbr ihsan mr gugle |
since from very young, my mother taught us to dress according to the occasion.. in tis entry i would like to talk about the correct attire to kenduri kawin for women..
every time we go to kenduri kawin, be it kat rumah or dewan or hotel, mesti ada org melayu yg dress inappropriately. my mum, sis and i hv always commented about how we wished the non-malays would respect our weddings more and dress more appropriately instead of wearing tshirts n shorts.. and then, we see even malay women now would wear pants, or worse, JEANS.
tak kisah la pakai dgn kebaya ke, kaftan ke, blouse ke, there is such thing called skirt kalau tak nak sgt pakai kain. pair a simple blouse with skirt pun kira ok la lagi daripada pakai jeans..
in some majlis done at hotels some malay women would wear dresses mcm non malays.. i knw it is personal preference tp kita kan org melayu (belum citer psl being a muslim lg ni), pakai la pakaian yg melambangkan adat kita.. wedding pun skali sekala je kan.. apa la salahnya..
question: susah sgt ke nak pakai baju yg sesuai ek???
wat we dont understand is baju kurung/kebaya/kaftan berlambak2 jual in the market. ada ke org melayu yg takde baju kurung?? my mother is chinese. my sis and i are half chinese n malay but we all wear baju yg appropriate to kenduri kawin! tak kisah la baju kurung biasa ke, kurung modern ke, kurung pahang ke, kaftan (with proper inner) ke, jubah ke, tp pakai la something yg menghormati majlis org.
it is all about manners. tats wat mummy wud say.
and then there's tis matter of pki baju jarang2 pastu pakai bra aje, tak pun tube yg pendek tu. helloooo, takde adab ke?? kenduri kawin ni dah la ramai org tua.. tak malu ke org nmpk bra or pusat ko?? inner kan byk jual.. merata2 weh..
again, it is all about manners.
yg pakai tudung plak, baju da ok, tp kain masyaAllah jarang nya.. nmpk dua batang kaki tu smpi la ke private parts.. pki suar pun tak se-sexy tu ok.. tak pun, pki tudung terlampau pendek smpi nmpk lurah (.)(.) kat bhgn leher kurung tu.. like whaaatttttt????!!!
tis is a matter of personal opinion. kena bg disclaimer dulu sblm org ada yg terasa.. hihihi..
ok sambung keje jom.. bye!!
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