how would you feel when you're about to go for pumping, you passed a male colleague, and knowing where you're going at that hour with yr bag, tat male colleague asked "nak sikit bole?". when i asked "nak apa??" dia gelak2 and a female colleague next to him told me not to layan him sbb dia "lucah". siap buat hand gesture mcm kat bwh ni..
on my way to surau i kept thinking wat did they mean? then on the afternoon same day, as i was walking out to go for zuhur prayer n pump, he quickly asked "akak nak gi mana tu, nak sikittttt.." with a cheeky tone. but i ignored him. i didnt knw how to respond. i kept thinking wat does he mean by tat, and i kinda know wat he was asking for but was hoping so bad tat i was wrong. at the same time i felt so offended. i guess it showed on my face coz m an open book hahahaha..
when i finished pumping i reconfirmed with the female colleague and i was right, tat stupid male colleague was asking for my milk!!!
i dont know if tis is funny to u but to me it is not funny at all. it is very disturbing n i felt offended n harassed. he wasnt there at the time, but i told tat female colleague that tat male colleague is being rude and stupid for saying n asking such a thing.
tis happened last tuesday but m still disturbed by it. everytime he passed by me i feel uncomfortable. but it seems as if he knows how i feel towards his stupid "joke". maybe the female colleague passed my message. good. or maybe he could tell from my facial expression tat day. even better.
am i being extra sensitive for being angry, offended and uncomfortable?
was i wrong for feeling harassed?
me being friendly in the office doesnt mean i am comfortable with jokes like tat. please la. how would you feel if your wife nnti being asked the same question? wont u feel offended? yup, he is a married man. but no child yet. however i hardly believe tis warrants him to be so insensitive and childish. he does after all has/had a mother who fed him kan.
tis story above answers my facebook status last tuesday which reads:
"Only a man with a sick mind wud associate breastfeeding w sexuality. A mother feeding her child is fitrah. A mother pumping at work is amanah, obligation & responsibility towards her child. Nothing sexual about tat, u dimwit. If the man himself was breastfed, lg he shud be ashamed of himself. If he wasn't, then I juz feel sorry for him for having such a mentality. Pfftttt!"
i seriously feel like slapping his face every time he walks around my working area. he deserves it kan?
